I guess u've heard quite few about what i've told others.
Now let me explain to you why said all those things.

It's not that i don't like a guy who cries. To me,a guy who dares to cry in front of ppl is a brave guy. But i just don't like it when a guy is TOO sensitive.
Cause what i need is a guy who can lead me & make me feel secure. Not the other way round. From where i'm seeing now, it seems that i'm being the GUY in this story. And i just don't like it. Yes, i may show that i'm tough & shits, but beneath it all i am still a girl. A soft hearted girl who needs a man to guide her. I'm tired of always being the one guiding ppl, telling people to be strong and that life is not all bad. I want someone to tell me all that and assure me that i can always count on him. You crying is not an issue to me, it's just that i sense that you are too sensitive. Yes, ur past is still hurting you and that you're still scared. But like i said before, what makes u think i 'm not scared too?
I've been in this situation before.. Where my ex was almost like you. But he was worst. Crying at the smallest things. Getting sensitive over small issues. And i gave up on him, cause i was not ready to become the man in the r'ship.

All i'm asking for is for you to take a breather and think. Think where you & i both stand in this story. Cause if this is how it's gonna be, then i don't think i want history to repeat itself. I'm not asking for much, but if u think this is too much of a request.. then don't worry. Back out. I'll understand. =)