What can we say bout them?
Most of us girls go through a case of what we call "Dream guy in the beginning, Worst nightmare later on"
Ok..
You get what i mean lah kan..
It's like,
baru-baru kenal,
guys are at their most sweetest and cutest moments.
but then when you've been with each other for quite a while,
they tend to change.
Change as in, they don't bother to call u much.
They will call,
but only like twice or three times a week..
When last time we used to talk for almost 24 hrs each and every day.
They tend to spend lesser and lesser time with you..
When last time, a day..
no..no..make it a minute.
a minute without seeing each other would be like the "ultimate torture".
Haha.
And yet when you try to talk things out..
All they tend to say ,"Alaaa,we still together pe. you nak risau buat pe?"
Nak risau buat ape ehk?
Hmm.
Let me think eh.
Oh yah..
Aku risau lah, pasal kau da jarang call aku,
pasal kita dah tk slalu jumpa..
Oh yes..
But to them that is not a big deal..
Cause why..??
To them as long as they are not playing behind our backs, thats good enough in a relationship..
Obviously they don't know that it takes much more than just not playing behind each others back to being with each other..
Entah lah kan..
i used to go through that with Gemok..
Where we only meet like once in 2 weeks..
talk on the fone like 3 times per week..
and yes..
to him that's ok..
Until one day when i've had enough, and i took things in my own hands,
instead of always trying to talk to him, but always got a sarcastic reply from him everytime.
Yeah..
i started going out with friends more,
started having fun ,WITHOUT him.
And suddenly it was his turn saying that i don't spend much time with him anymore.
Ironic ain't it.
When in the 1st place u were the one saying it was ok as long as we've got each other.
But when i start going out with friends again, u start to say aku pentingkan kawan.
And did i tell you, guys are good ,and i mean DAMN good, at twisting the story till evetually it becomes our fault to start with.
Hahs.
Don't believe me?
I have one good example here with me, living with me.
Gemok.
He is good.
and he knows it.
Haha.
What i'm trying to say is,
why do guys even bother to be nice in the 1st place, when later on all u do is just don't bother?
And since i have a male reader here (Zyrul),
pls don't "Terase" okeehh..
It's just a post about what i've gone through and what my friend is going through right now.
And yes, your comments will be very very much appreciated.
Cause you're a guy,
and i want to hear from u what you think bout this..
Haha.
So..
Comments people.
And Fad darling,
If he doesn't want to make the effort of trying to please you, then do whatever makes you happy.
Cause your happiness matters most.
That's why i rather stick to "Tattoos last greater than romance."
Words from the great tattoo artist "AMI JAMES".
Haha.
I wish.
And my daughter is annoying the crap out of me right now.
Singing this stupid chinese song.
And i'm beat.
Bye.
And Pls Gemok, Stay This Way. Cause This Is You WhomI Fell In Love With In The First Place.
I've withstand the harshest pain & hurt a human can get. My weakness is love.
And i'll do anything for the people i love. I've been told that i can be intimidating, but at the end of the day, i might just be your best friend.
I do not wish to hate but if i've been hated, i'll be more than please to return the favour.
Simply said..
I'm known as P G Tazzy Yana or Tazz. I'm 22. I have 1 daughter,ZAPHIA. I'm a part of P G.
And i'm happy with my life.